Get Rhythm (When You Get The Blues)
This update is long overdue, and there’s much to catch up on.
The most exciting news is that Melissa and I are engaged! We’ve been living together for over two years now, so perhaps it comes as no surprise, but I’m still hard pressed to believe it myself that we’ll soon be married!
When we first moved to Blacksburg, Melissa babysat for a couple who had also met while hiking the Appalachian Trail. They’ve become close friends of ours, and they generously loaned us their kayaks over Thanksgiving. So Melissa and I spent our holiday paddling alongside bottlenose dolphins off Hunting Island and floating on the blackwater Edisto River further inland, both of which were a blast. I proposed to Melissa as we walked along the beach at sunset; she apparently found the attempt romantic and sincere enough to accept!
We had our wedding spot picked out long before I proposed: an old homestead in Giles County, not far from the Appalachian Trail. But we’ve since discovered that the Forest Service will be renovating it over the next few years, which rules out having our wedding there. Seeing as we’re still scrambling to find a suitable outdoor location, we can’t announce a date as yet, but stay tuned.
As far as the farm goes, deer ravaged our garden shortly after we moved to our apartment in Blacksburg. It was also a very dry growing season, so very little survived aside from some onions and squash. This saddened us greatly, but there wasn’t much we could do to save our crop. We still visit the property sporadically, but we spend most of our time at work and at our apartment, much to our chagrin.
One thing we have done is to choose a new homesite, which we much prefer to the one we’d originally cleared. It’s more remote, has better views, and is flatter as well. We hired a forester to walk the property with us, and he disabused us of two key assumptions: that we could use yellow poplar to build a log home with (it splits too easily), and that one of the skid trails used by the loggers to shuttle logs down the mountain could eventually become our driveway (not a chance). So instead of a log cabin-style house, we’re thinking more along the lines of a conventional wood-framed building with a “green” material like strawbale or cordwood for the walls.
As far as day to day life goes, we both have reasonably satisfying jobs in town that, unfortunately, don’t pay as much as we’d like. I’ve been working in the mornings for PE Central, a website for physical education and health instructors, in the afternoons at the Christiansburg Public Library, and in the evenings and on weekends teaching SAT, GRE, and GMAT courses for Kaplan. I’ve enjoyed teaching so much that I’ve decided to pursue it as a career; I’m enrolled in a fast-track “career switcher” program and, with any luck, I’ll be teaching full-time in a local school system come August. I’ve also written two feature articles for the New River Voice, an alternative newspaper that launched last summer, and I’ve transcribed most of the podcasts at the BackpackingLight.com website (as yet unpublished).
Melissa spends her mornings working at a child care center for low- to middle-income families, and also works part-time during the week and on Sundays as an assistant to the religious education director at the Unitarian Universalist church we attend. She still babysits on occasion, and spends much of her free time reading and making plates, bowls, and mugs on her newly repaired pottery wheel.
But it hasn’t been all work and no play. We get out on the weekends and hike or backpack when we can, usually on or near the Appalachian Trail. Our most significant vacation aside from Thanksgiving and Christmas, the latter of which we spent visiting Melissa’s family on Long Island, was an October sojourn to the Great Smoky Mountains for a week-long backpacking trip. We don’t have any major travel plans in the works, which might come as a surprise, as we’re really focused on saving money and positioning ourselves for the long-term. We figure that there will be plenty of time for travel and other rewarding opportunities when I’m established as a teacher and have my summers off!
I’m sure there’s much I’ve forgotten, but that’s all for now.